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Humuliation … April 24, 2008

Posted by ipassion in Life, Passion.
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Believe many of us were being humuliated before for any reason. Recently, one of friend told me that she has been humuliated by her immediate superior recently. She do feel hurt at that point of time but she has learned and gained more experience instead by the grace of God. In fact, humuliation is a very common thing that happened everywhere in our today society due to competitive environment.

When your mood is good, you may say it is ok, forgive and forget! But when your mood is not good, you may react ….

For surviving, man will try all means to achieve their own objective without considering much about others. Even we do consider about others, but we may put them aside as we care about our own self more than others. The ‘ME’ is always bigger than ‘YOU’!

This is NOT just you and me problem, but it is a common perspective where most people will think and react for surviving since then. If this world is full of love, generousity and unselfish people, the peace of God is upon everyone and everywhere.

I would say – Humuliation is part of life! Meaning to say it is part of our growing process. The more we face, the stronger we will be. Despite of all kinds of rough environment being given, as long as we willing to eat the humble pie by not reacting what the common people reacting, we have won the game! Why do I say so?

No.1 – Since you think they are wrong by saying that, we ourselves do not repeat it by saying something back to hurt or attack the person especially those with good intention and you know it. Some people just do not know how to send the right signal at the right time. Hence, do not response the same as the other person did. Do not blame others for doing so as we are not as good too. Do we really know how to send the right signal at ALL the times?

No.2 – After each humuliation, it hurts (maybe to some people) but we learned. Usually we will tell ourselve not to repeat it again. Hence it is a valuable experience where money cannot buy.

No.3 – It molds our character even stronger. No expectation, no dissapointment!

No. 4- We may think we are so lousy after the humuliation in front of others. But to tell you the truth, If our response is right, others will respect you more as not all people are able to eat the humble pie like you. Do you usually laugh or look down on other when someone has been just humuliated?

No.5- A FREE lesson for others to learn beside our ownselves. Our mistake or somebody mistake is always a FREE lesson to each other. Hence, it definitely can be a blessings to someone out there in future.

I have been humuliated since very young due to family background and it never stops. But because of the past incidents, I have learned to be stronger and stronger. Hence humuliation to me is part of my growing process in my life. But somehow when you passes a level, God will promote you to another level until we have reached the ultimate level where both physical appearance, emotion, mentally and situation management are all well managed and not affected.

Not sure your are agree with me or not. It is your choice, no right or wrong answer. I have been blessed alot and still learning. I hope you are as well…

 

Busy busy.. always busy! April 20, 2008

Posted by ipassion in Life, Passion.
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Busy all the times?

It is alright to be busy all the times, but busy with what? According to the statistic, average human life is about 75 years in Singapore, it is so precious as it is neither too long nor too short!

Ever wonder busy with something which is rewarding? You may thinking now, what will that be? What is it so rewarding that you want to talk about? Money? more money? extra money? No, no no.. no!

Loving people! Anybody that you talk and see! Anybody that needs or do not needs help!

Again you may ask why should I? To tell you the truth, loving people is the most rewarding thing to do on earth as the return is so precious that touches your heart and whole life which you will never want to forget! It will not just impact your own life but also others if you really love them with true love!

In today context, everybody is so busy in all areas of life, but how many of us really go out to the society to care and love about others? Life is not just about busy with your own things but it is also care about others.  When was the last time you ‘REALLY’ care about others instead of yourself?

Let’s not be complacent with where and who we are right now, but be someone that your family and your child can be proud of. Help the needy now as they really need help! We will never know whether the unfortunate incidents will fall upon us or not but since we are being blessed by GOD now, we should learn to bless others in order to have a rewarding and meaningful life!

Act now before it gets too late! There are alot needs our LOVE!