it hurts … April 9, 2010
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It hurts me when I listen to those ‘words’ and message. It is His msg which hurts me alot from man.
It doesn’t encourges me at all, and it hurts me and make me feel so bad, sad and lousy. I am terribly hurts and cried very loud when I was driving home at 12am+ alone after the usual mtg. Sometimes I can understand those words very well but sometimes I am not! Cox I just need a hug or silent comfort & understanding at that moment… anybody know how to offer?
Nobody! They offer plenty of words with good intention but this is not what I want. I want somebody who cares and understand how I feel.. Comfort me with personal touch that touches and heals my heart. NOT words!!!!!
I know those words and all his intention/purposes for me. I know and understand it deep in my heart. But the difficult part for me is to go through it with peace without worry and stress. Yes, we all are aware that it will be blessed if you bless other even in your difficult time. But may I ask for a first comfort hug and silent understanding before I start doing it as it is painful for me now….
When you are sharing something with somebody, it can also means that you are seeking attention. If you dont rec’d the reply or hear what you wish to hear, you will be automatically dishearten and dissapointed towards man. As sub-consiously you have set those expectation in your mind and aims to achieve it. The next moment, you will start putting blames upon other for failing to understand your problem and show love.
HS said, we are blinded with our expectation! People do care and understand what you are going through, tht’s why they are sharing with you the walk we have to go through as a child of God, by encouraging you with his words; but it wasn’t the expectation/words/action that you wish for. Thus, it hurts and you feel sad about it.
It is your weakness which needs to be dealt with!! This is the reason you are going through it. Think about how to go through it with peace, grace, joy and blessing. It takes mindset change for every situation and difficulty to be positive.
Enermy comes and destroy, steal and put fear in you. DO NOT fall into the trap and worry not! God indeed will provide. He feeds the birds on the sky, aren’t you more valuable than they are? Matthew 6:26
Putting expectation on man lead you to dissapointment.
But there are many areas which I dont know how to handle? Tell or not tell? What is the best and right way to do? I will be hurts after telling as it didnt gives me what I want… No matter what I am still a person who just need a silent comfort and understanding. How to change it as my mind can be changed but not by my emotion. It is emotion who control my mind sometimes due to fear! I am weak Lord! Would you help me to deal with my weakness?
HS said, if you change your mind, your emotion will be changed. It all started from mindset change!
Lord, you will not take away ‘that blessing’ from me right?
Read Proverb 3:5 – Trust your God with all your heart and lean not your own understanding and He will make your path straight.
Mathew 6:33-34 Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you. So then, do not worry about tomorrow, for tommorow will worry about itself. Today has enough trouble of its own.
God is always gracious in His blessing upon His children. Be blessed and stand up!
